the thought…if you’re feeling good, keep doing that. So then this leads to the other questions that I get. “Well how do we change our thoughts to feel good?” The thing is that the more that you pay attention to your bad thoughts the more that they are going to continue to come up. And then you worry that your bad thoughts are going to create bad conditions and you worry that you won’t be able to stop that. And it just goes round and round. Now I know what I’m getting ready to tell you will go against everything that you have been taught but hang on….here we go….this is it…..allow your bad thoughts to come. Let them be there. As soon as the screaming stops, you can read on. So let me guess what thoughts are going through your head now. “I can’t possibly do that!” “But if I do that then everything will come true.” “How can that possibly work??” Well just hold on for a moment and I will tell you. The thing is, we are often taught that if we shove our bad thoughts out of the way or push them down and ignore them then they will go away. And most of you have probably been doing that. You are a survivor. You rise above the challenge and bad thoughts and carry on. Because you’re strong and can handle anything, Right? Well let me ask you a question in the words of Dr. Phil. “How’s that workin’ for ya?” I think that it’s safe to say that if it were working, then you wouldn’t be reading this and you would already have everything it is that you want. You also wouldn’t be facing frustration over how this secret stuff isn’t working. And you wouldn’t be facing the same old things over and over again. Do you: *Continue to work at the same old job and not getting the satisfaction from it that you once did? *Find yourself in the same types of relationships? Attract the same type of person to your life and then after the break up say to yourself, “Well, I did it again” *Start your day motivated only to end up at the end frustrated and exhausted? Anyone of the above can help to define whether your life is working the way that you want it to or not. To help you find out where you’re at, start asking yourself different questions. The right questions. What do I mean by “right” questions? Often times we ask ourselves so many negative and damaging questions which can include: Why does this keep happening? Why can’t I seem to move past this? Why do I keep attracting the same type of guy (or girl)? And here is a biggie… What’s wrong with me? What if you decided to shift your focus a
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