doesn't tell you about. But I believe it is one thing to follow the guidelines of the secret and create exactly what it is that you want but another thing entirely when it comes to actually working with it. I'm constantly being asked how come it's not working? And perhaps you're one of those people that knows there is something wrong in your life and want to change for the better. That's why the movie speaks to you the way that it does. But you also may recognize that despite your best intentions you just can't make it work. Also, the movie has caused some to become very concerned when they have a negative thought and then they’re petrified that the thought is going to come true. So how is it that we can overcome not only our negative thoughts, but our fear that those thoughts will not be created? First, relax. You have to give yourself permission to have a negative thought. When you begin to "freak out" over your negative thoughts you're just going to be creating more power to that thought. It's like laughing in church… the more you try to stop, the louder and harder it becomes. The one thing that your negative thoughts need is energy and intent. If you don’t put that behind your thoughts then you’ve got nothing. You also have the luxury of time on your side. That is the one thing that the secret says. It will take time to manifest what it is that you want. This is like a safety mechanism where you have time to rethink your thoughts. If they are not the kind of thought that will serve you then you'll be able to change it. I remember that I had a client who was so worried one time that she caused the death of her cat. She said that she moved into an apartment where there was a busy street out front and she was constantly worried that her cat was going to run out and traffic. One day it escaped out of the door and into the street where unfortunately, Mr. Whiskers was hit by a car. She was so stressed that she caused her cat to become injured. These are the types of things that we are becoming worried about despite positive intentions of the movie. And it’s worse with even the smaller things. Clients are so worried and concerned that they are going to cause every bad thought that comes to them. I’m talking seriously scared! If this is you, give yourself a break. Allow yourself to monitor your thoughts and when you find yourself thinking a negative thought, stop it and correct it. That’s the beauty of feelings. They are road markers. If you’re feeling bad, change
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